Finding Your Person, With People Who Know You
Personal, not algorithmic.

Sephardi Sparks sits across a network of communities (Toronto, New York/Great Neck, Los Angeles, Montreal, Miami, Jerusalem) full of serious, growing people who mostly never cross paths. Matchmaking here starts with an actual conversation: Rebecca Abergel sits down with you over a short video call to understand who you are, where you’re holding, and what you’re actually looking for.
All applicants begin with a private conversation with Rebecca Abergel, who oversees the matching process. She may consult Rabbi Adam Abergel when he knows an applicant personally or can provide helpful context.
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Reach out
Open the intake form from the button at the bottom of this page: who you are, and what you’re looking for.
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A real conversation
A short video call with Rebecca Abergel: who you are, what matters to you, what you’re looking for.
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Introductions with intention
When there’s a real fit somewhere in the network, you’ll hear about it. No profiles floating around, no numbers game.
Everything you share stays private. Nothing about you is passed along without your explicit say-so.
Your information will be reviewed privately by Rabbi Abergel and Rebecca Abergel. Nothing will be posted publicly or shared with a potential match without your permission. Submitting this form does not guarantee an introduction. Your information may be discussed confidentially between Rebecca Abergel and Rabbi Abergel as part of the Sephardi Sparks matchmaking team.
Open to men and women, in the five cities and beyond.
Matchmaking Intake
The intake is a short private form, and it takes about ten minutes. You’ll need to be signed in to a Google account for the photo upload.
Open the Matchmaking IntakeIt opens in a new tab. No Google account? Email Shidduch@sephardisparks.org and Rebecca will send you the questions directly.
